About the sex industry post, I have been dancing competitively for 15 years in a variety of styles, ballet and jazz being the more consistant. I am strong, flexible, and just as skilled as other dancers who have had as much training as I have, and SURPRISE, I’M FAT! BODY TYPE DOESN’T NECESSARILY TRANSLATE TO ATHLETIC SKILLS. Because of my size, I lost many competitions, even though my technique and skill was up to par with the other dancers. If I had been born different, I could have followed my dreams and danced professionally, but no one ever gave me a chance.
P.S lifts have very little to do with the size of the partner or the strength of the lifter. It depends on the core strength of the person being lifted to hold them properly. I have been the person in the lift more than once.